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Stories for the woman who is still growing

I'm Nuniek, a storyteller, community builder and lifelong learner. I've written online since 2002: honest reflections on faith, marriage, motherhood and midlife reinvention, and practical ways of living meaningfully within our means.

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The Real Marriage Life
The Real Marriage Life
The book

The Real Marriage Life

A book about the ups and downs behind building a family, told honestly

Arguing with your partner more often than you'd like? Communication that keeps breaking down? Tired of carrying two roles at once, wife and mother? Nuniek shares true stories from her own marriage and the practical ways she and Natali worked through the hard parts, so you can keep tending your own garden even when it feels dry.

Serambi Ilmu Semesta, 2021 · 260 pages · ISBN 9786022901181

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