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Today is our wedding anniversary and I feel like sharing my tips about how to maintain a marriage,  as I promised 1,5 years ago  :) Insecurity is the root of jealousy. When you feel insecure, you easily get jealous. And jealousy leads to dispute. Learned it the hard way. Daripada terus2an menuntut dan bernegatif-thinking yg menghabiskan energi, kenapa nggak diputarbalikkan jadi motivasi untuk memperbaiki kualitas diri dan mencari kesibukan dengan kegiatan positif? Always keep up with your spouse. Keeping up with spouse and shifting to the same level will help you stay away from insecurity. Banyak yg mengeluh ketika pasangan berubah, padahal perubahan adalah satu2nya hal yg abadi di dunia ini. Perubahan tak bisa dilawan, tapi bisa diarahkan. Jangan curhat sembarangan . Jika sedang menghadapi masalah, ceritalah hanya dengan orang yang benar benar kamu percaya bisa bantu mengatasi masalahmu. Kalau mau sekedar berbagi perasaan, tunggu sampai masalahnya selesai. Contro...

Stumbled upon this and triggers me to write this post : Women are like cars As they get more mileage on them they become less reliable and attractive. So when one gets old and used you trade up to a newer model, just like a car. Actor Ryan Phillippe shows a prime example. He started dating Reese Witherspoon when she was young and attractive. She popped out a few kids and got older so he traded up to Abbie Cornish, 6 years younger than Reese Witherspoon and a lot hotter.After a few years he traded up again to Alexis Knapp, 7 years younger than Abbie Cornish. Men get more attractive and desirable with age where women become less desirable. That is a good reason why men should never marry. Sadly, how debatable it is, I found this partly true. BUT, there’s a but, it mostly applies if women are not willing to upgrade themselves, both inner & outer. And I, as far as I’m concerned, wouldn’t be one of them. At least, not anymore. At the beginning of our dating days almost a dec...