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Finding The Right One

How to find “the right one”? How do we know that he/she is the one? First,  no one  in this world  is perfect for you . Even when you think you found one, be prepared to find the fact that he/she is not that perfect. The good news is, there is actually  someone  who  is just right for you . But bear in mind that  you cant find Mr./Ms. Right. You make one.   First time I met this guy for real was in July 2002, at Indonesian blogger community gathering (Blogbugs). We’ve been knowing each other for several months only via blog. I read his blog & he read mine, give comments & exchange link, as simple as that. Being smart, firstborn, famous-geek, calm & shy,  he got my attention in the first place as a perfect guy . Unfortunately, he already got a girlfriend. So I simply forget him and continue my journey in finding Mr. Right. A year later we met again, in the first national blogger gathering - Blogbugs Anniversary (May 2003). Under...
How to find “the right one”? How do we know that he/she is the one? First,  no one  in this world  is perfect for you . Even when you think you found one, be prepared to find the fact that he/she is not that perfect. The good news is, there is actually  someone  who  is just right for you . But bear in mind that  you cant find Mr./Ms. Right. You make one.   First time I met this guy for real was in July 2002, at Indonesian blogger community gathering (Blogbugs). We’ve been knowing each other for several months only via blog. I read his blog & he read mine, give comments & exchange link, as simple as that. Being smart, firstborn, famous-geek, calm & shy,  he got my attention in the first place as a perfect guy . Unfortunately, he already got a girlfriend. So I simply forget him and continue my journey in finding Mr. Right. A year later we met again, in the first national blogger gathering - Blogbugs Anniversary (May 2003). Un...

Melahirkan Itu Keajaiban Tuhan

Dan Tuhan memberikan pada Nie keajaiban itu sekali lagi… Senin, 17 Maret 2008. Usia kandungan 36 minggu 4 hari. Mama mertua main ke rumah, kita ngobrol di kamar Nie 1,5 jam. Pas mo pulang, beliau nyaranin Nie ke dokter ditemenin salah satu asisten rumah tangga. Karena banyak urusan beliau nggak bisa nemenin. Nie bilang gpp pergi sendirian, toh perginya ke RS sakit, kalo kandungannya kenapa2 ya aman di sana. Lagipula RSnya juga deket banget. Jam 12 siang, taksi Blue Bird pesanan datang. Dokter agak bingung, jadwal kontrol Nie harusnya Rabu. Nie bilang, sejak Sabtu pagi rasanya udah ada kontraksi dan perut bagian bawah nyeri. Lagipula Nie pengen cepet2 tentuin tanggal operasi caesarnya, karena mama mau ke Bangka. Setelah di USG dokter langsung periksa dalam, ternyata… udah ada pembukaan! Sementara posisi bayinya masih melintang: kepala di perut kanan atas, kaki di perut kiri bawah. Jelas sangat beresiko kalo dipaksain melahirkan normal. Mana kelilit tali pusat pula. Dari bahan2 ...