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Take a look at that meme above. Come to think of it, I think I get it.


Men feel the love in their heart but they don’t even dare to think about it. That’s why sometimes they just keep it safe and sound to control the damage.


While women, dare to think about love all the time especially when there are sweet memories running in their head, and they feel it deeply in their heart.


It’s just men’s way to protect their mind. Coz in fact they’re scared… That the thoughts of love will occupy their mind all the time.


So women may seem weak, but the truth is they’re that brave to think and feel the love, as much as it might cost.

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